Him. You guys randomly start talking one day. He compliments you and tells you you’re pretty and cute. He asks you about your past relationships and you ask him about his. When you tell him you’ve been hurt multiple times, he tells you that those guys are all jerks and stupid for letting a girl like you go. You then share tell him some more stories about your past and he tells you his. He starts flirting with you and you start flirting back. Then he asks for your number and you give it to him right away. The next day he texts you and tells you good morning and tells you to have a good day. Soon talking to him becomes a part of your daily routine and you wait for him every day to text you. Whenever you receive something from him, you start smiling and your day instantly becomes better. He texts you daily asking how your day went. You talk to him all night and he always asks if you are tired and if you want to go to bed. The night conversations you have with him are always the best and the deepest. You sleep when he sleeps and he sleeps when you sleep. Now he wants to meet up and hang out with you. When you meet up with him, you feel even more chemistry with him and you feel butterflies in your stomach every time you talk to him. Now you tell your friends about what an amazing guy he is and you are interested in him. Soon he confesses that he is interested in you and you tell him that the feeling is mutual. You go on more dates with him and he starts giving you nicknames and calling you baby. You feel like you’re the happiest girl alive and the feeling is so strong between you guys. One day, he suddenly stops texting you first. When you guys talk now, it’s only because you hit him up first. Things changed and you don’t understand what unexpectedly happened. He stops putting effort talking to you and doesn’t show that he still wants to be with you. You become extremely clingy and you don’t want another girl in the picture. You can’t help wondering what went wrong. You ask him if anything is wrong and he tells you that everything is fine. Then you start thinking he’s mad at you for something you did, but he assures you that you need to relax and everything’s okay. He tells you that he’s just been busy. So you wait for a while and nothing is changing. He’s still “busy” all the time and he doesn’t even try to talk to you. Now every time you talk to him it becomes an argument. And you get scared that you are being annoying by hitting him up first, so you stop talking to him. Months pass, and you don’t talk to him at all. You never know what happened from his point of view. Because of him, every day and night you’re hurt and upset. You don’t know what went wrong in the relationship between you two. Your friends tell you to forget him and that he doesn’t deserve someone like you. But you can’t seem to listen to them, you’re already too attached to him. You miss the old person he used to be and you don’t even know what he has changed into. And one day you see that he has a new girl in his life. He’s calling her cute names and telling her everything he used to tell you. He calls her baby and tells her he thinks she’s gorgeous. He tells her everything you’ve heard before. He seems completely fine without you and now he has someone else to talk and text every day and night. You refuse to believe that he played you, but it’s true. You’re still hurt and he has already moved on. You’re still sad and everything you do reminds you of him. You can’t stop thinking about him and you cry every night thinking about him. You still secretly hope that one day he will start talking to you again and you guys will pick up where you last left off but you also know that it will never ever happen. You compare every guy you now meet with him. He’s already forgotten about you but you’re still having a hard time letting go. Sound familiar?

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